Charlie asked:
I am wanting advice on the dildo range you have that fit the strap-on harnesses you have. I am a bit apprehensive about buying them online because I can not feel the strength of the dildo, so before I decide to purchase I would like to know which is the firmer harder one in your range.
I don’t like the dildo’s that are a bit squishy and prefer the ones that are hard. I find that the soft variety slip a lot and cannot be used hands free.. .. which would you recommend of the range that is the firmer harder dildo that fit the strap-on jockey harness.
Advice Grrl answered:
Hi charlie, It’s great that you’ve got yourself a harness – they’re so much fun! However, when it comes to getting a dildo that suits, it sounds like you’ve been having a challenging time.
If you’re not in an area where you can visit one of our stores or attend one of our parties, it can be challenging to figure out just how firm a dildo is by looking at it online. If you can visit D.VICE, then pop in and check them out! We have samples in the store so you can give each a good squeeze for firmness comparison.
That said, the dildos we manufacture ourselves (realistic looking and smooth) are made from 100% silicone. Made from a dipped mould that has no seams or flaws, they are solid, nice and heavy to hold. If you’re gripping them, you can squeeze quite firmly (harder than you would a penis).
All D.VICE dildos have a little give but not much. They certainly don’t flop around! Since you’re specifically looking for firmness, I’d suggest you look at the dildos with more girth (such as the Giantess) or any of the realistic models. These are the most firm dildos in the range.
Additionally, all of our D.VICE manufactured dildos have a flared base which sits beneath the O ring of the harness. The flared base is important for holding it firmly in place on the harness. All of the dildos we manufacture have a 10 year guarantee! Keep sharp objects away from the toy as they can cut the silicone and the tear will get worse. This means keeping your toy away from the cat! You don’t know how many times we’ve heard about kittens deciding a dildo is the perfect play toy!
If you’re relatively new to strap-on play, or want some extra useful information, make sure you get a copy of the Adventurous Couples Guide to Strap-On Sex. Have fun!
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